Communication in a relationship is crucial and underrated .. Our
ideas of what defines that communication varies from one person to the
next.. It is not that being in a relationship gives you the liberty to
unleash your emotions without examined behavior. But its important to
have that foundation set together, and early.
Communication means being open to hear things you may not like or want to hear about yourself. It's the ability to do an honest self analysis and to look at what/how we contribute or take from a relationship. Communication means listening and validating someone else's feelings, regardless. Feelings should be validated, and if necessary, adjusted to show your true intentions through loving expression. Communication is the ability to disagree - - yet to do so with love because if there is something to be learned, it's achieved together.
It should be done with Diplomacy because you want that person to be next to you, to be by your side -- You're a team after all, not in a match.
Its all about lifting each other up, and this means ridding ourselves of our egos.
A.S.
Communication means being open to hear things you may not like or want to hear about yourself. It's the ability to do an honest self analysis and to look at what/how we contribute or take from a relationship. Communication means listening and validating someone else's feelings, regardless. Feelings should be validated, and if necessary, adjusted to show your true intentions through loving expression. Communication is the ability to disagree - - yet to do so with love because if there is something to be learned, it's achieved together.
It should be done with Diplomacy because you want that person to be next to you, to be by your side -- You're a team after all, not in a match.
Its all about lifting each other up, and this means ridding ourselves of our egos.
A.S.
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